Commonly Asked Mediumship Questions
✨ What does "love and above" mean? A medium serves as a conduit between the physical realm and the spiritual realm. My interactions are exclusively with spirits embodying love and above frequencies, receiving messages that serve the highest good of all involved. Any reference to potentially "negative" messages you'd rather not receive indicates guidance from the spiritual realm for your ultimate benefit; however, your boundaries are fully respected if you're not ready to receive specific messages.
✨ How do I prepare a mediumship reading? Please reserve mediumship readings for at least 6 months after your loved one you hope to connect with has transitioned. This is for many reasons but spirit is still learning how to communicate and raw grief lowers the energetic vibration that may contribute to challenges connecting. The most important aspect is to practice allowing messages to come through with an open mind. For instance, if someone seeks validation from the spiritual realm through a specific message like a memory of a toy unicorn, and the conveyed messages describe characteristics such as "pink, mystical, childhood, toy," etc.. , the recipient might not immediately link these descriptions to a unicorn. Please know that spirit does their best to lower their energetic vibration to connect with us and sometimes communication feels similar to a game of charades. This is why it is important to confirm if something resonates with you during session or not.
✨ Can I share information about my loved ones in spirit? I know it can be tempting to share stories, but please hold back from giving details about your loved ones either before or during the reading unless I ask you directly. Mediumship is a bit like playing charades—I receive impressions, images, feelings, and symbols that I’ll describe to you, and I may need to ask how something connects. So yes, the reading will feel conversational at times, but I’m not looking for long backstories—just short validations. For example, I might say, “I’m seeing a raccoon—what’s the connection?” and you might respond, “One spooked me this week!” That simple moment helps validate that the spirit I’m connecting with was with you when it happened. These little signs are often how they let us know they're around.
✨ What are the benefits of booking energy healing and mediumship in one session? At its core, healing encompasses a range of modalities, and combining these offerings felt natural. For spirits to communicate with us while we're in our human state, they need to lower their energetic vibration while we need to elevate ours. Energetic frequencies such as raw grief and trauma reactions, anxiety, anger, or strong skepticism can hinder spirit connections. This is one of the main reasons why I combine mediumship sessions with energy healing. If you come in angry, for instance, energy healing can help ease that emotion, clearing the path for spirit communication during your session. And if you come in feeling wonderful, the energy healing will only help you both during and after your session!
✨ What about connecting with spirit babies, animals and individuals who were nonverbal? I love connecting with spirit babies and animals—these readings hold such a gentle, pure energy. Communication with babies, animals, and individuals who were nonverbal in life tends to come through telepathically, more through feeling, images, and energetic impressions than words. They’re still able to bring through clear validations and evidence to let you know they’re with you, always.
✨ Do you predict the future? Short answer, no. Long answer, I only ask for messages for the highest good to offer insight, clarity, and encouragement to use your free will to determine your destiny. I do not censor messages from spirit and cannot control what messages spirit provide. There’s a chance something may come through about the future; however, I do not specifically channel future predictions as this type of message may not be for the highest good. On a personal level, I don't subscribe to the idea that predictions always serve the greater good, and I don't feel aligned with relaying such messages unless guided by spirit. Predicting events by specific dates, for instance, can potentially inflict emotional distress. It might trigger undue anxiety as the timeline approaches, and if the prediction doesn't unfold as anticipated, it could leave one feeling disheartened and powerless. My goal is to provide you with messages for you to cultivate your own magic!
✨ Can I bring in an object from my loved one in spirit? Yes, of course! It is not necessary but if you choose to do so, I ask that you keep it concealed in a bag until I ask for it.
✨ Can I ask a specific spirit to step forward? Yes—please let me know the relationship (not their name) of who you’re hoping to connect with, either before or at the start of the session. For example, you might say “my grandfather” or “my female friend.” Some people hold back in hopes that I’ll bring through the exact person without any input—but doing that can actually make it harder for that spirit to come through. It can unintentionally lower your own energetic vibration, which is so important in supporting spirit communication. Sharing who you're hoping to hear from helps create a clearer pathway for them to step forward. That said, if someone does not share who they want to connect with I always go with who is loudest. Mediumship is a bit like walking into a crowded room—sometimes I can only hear the loudest voice at first. Just because one spirit comes through strongly doesn’t mean others aren’t there too—they may simply be quieter in the moment. My intention is never for you to leave feeling disappointed because someone didn’t come through. Being clear about who you want to connect with gives us the best chance to create a meaningful and validating connection.
✨ What if a message doesn’t make sense? If something does not make sense to you, please tell me. Spirit is never wrong in what they communicate, what can be incorrect, or just have a different meaning, is my interpretation of it. This is the type of situation where I will ask you more questions and encourage you to share minimally to help decipher the message with more accuracy. If I am confident in the interpretation and you are still confused, take it home with you. Sometimes messages will make sense in the future. It could be that in the session you were unable to recognize a name but then realize upon arriving home it was a great aunt or uncle who you never met. Sometimes, it is for the future, or it could be for someone else such as a friend, coworker, etc. and it will come to you when you communicate with them.
✨ I'm skeptical, how do I know this is legit? Having skepticism is a natural and healthy response. Spirit can offer validation if the skeptic's energy allows for it. It's important to note that my role is simply to convey messages, not to seek personal validation or showcase my abilities to the world. In fact, a crucial lesson in mediumship development involves learning to surrender the ego to receive messages clearly.
✨ What does it mean “spirits and spirits don’t mix?” This is a common saying for very important reasons. Do not come under the influence of alcohol or other recreational mind-altering substances. Mind altering substances can interfere with connecting to love and above spirits. *Please note, if someone is under the influence of a mind-altering substances, the session will be canceled, and no refunds will be provided. If the individual appears unsafe to drive and cannot find safe transportation, I will assist in finding safe transportation and contact appropriate resources as needed.
✨ I think I’m also a medium, can you help me? All Abord the Hogwarts Express! Yes, I love teaching Witch School! Anyone can connect with spirit world and many people begin receiving messages without attempting to consciously try to connect. These mentoring sessions are indivdualized and will consist of spiritual development through shadow work to raise your energetic vibration, ongoing energy work, meditation, at-home exercises and more.